A father once had many children. Immediately after birth, the children were sent to an orphanage where they were alternately beaten and caressed, made sick and healed, starved and feasted. With the father’s consent, some of the children were allowed to die, so that those who remained would be more grateful for their lives.
The children were not allowed to have any direct contact with their father. The workers in the orphanage would often assure the children that their father was alive and that he loved them. When the children asked why their father never came to them in person, the workers insisted that the father wanted to teach his children to trust him. The workers also presented the children with some very old papers containing stories about their father, supposedly written by people who knew him. However, different workers gave the children different documents, many of which contradicted the others. Although every worker insisted that his own documents were genuine, all but one set were forgeries.
At the end of a number of years, a few children, who read and believed the genuine papers and who believed, in spite of their misery, that their father was alive and loved them, were allowed to go home to him, where they were showered with love and affection. All the rest of the children were transferred to another orphanage, much worse than the first, where they were tortured continually for the rest of their lives.
Would you call this man a kind and loving father?